Re-gathering

“Same Storm, Different Boat”

Proper 14A 2020 – August 9 2020

First Sunday Back

1 Kings 19:9-18; Psalm 85:8-13; Romans 10:5-15; Matthew 14:22-33

You all have heard the expression, “We’re all in the same boat.” It means, according to the Cambridge dictionary, “to be in the same unpleasant situation as other people.”

The disciples on the sea were all in the same boat. They were storm-tossed and afraid, not sure they’d make it to morning’s light.

I’ve heard a lot of people use “We’re all in the same boat” about the Pandemic we’re dealing with… It’s been affecting every country. A lot of business are hurting. The illness can affect all ages.” Usually people use the expression to help us engender compassion for one another. “Since we’re all in the same boat, we might as well work together.”

19th century British theologian G.K. Chesterfield once said, “We are all in the same boat on a stormy sea, and we owe each other a terrible loyalty.”

But there’s another, similar, phrase that I think feels a little more accurate.” .

“We’re all in the same storm, But we’re in different boats.”

I recently saw this phrase attached to an image that showed a raging sea, with lightning and waves and rain and wind…. And in the water were several different types of boats.

A battleship, a big yacht, a sailboat, a rowboat, a life-raft.

You’re experience of the storm would be a lot different depending on what kind of boat you were in, wouldn’t it?

I think we can look at the world today, and all the issues we’re dealing with and see that we all may be experiencing the same storms…. But many of us are in different boats.

For example, its so lovely for me to be able to finally worship together again… to actually preach to people and not just to my iPhone! For 5 months we have been apart. How we’ve dealt with it depends on what kind of boat you’re in.

For people like me, during this time of isolation and pandemic, I admit I’ve been in a pretty comfortable boat, perhaps even a yacht. I live in a nice house with my husband who is working at home and we get to have his kids with us every other week. I’ve been able to come into the office when I want, and here I have fellow staff and parishioner volunteers I can talk with – at least from a 6’ distance. All my loved ones are healthy and, while keeping all the safety protocols, I’ve been able to get out and do the business I need to. It’s not been all easy, but over all there have been bright sides to this storm cloud for me.

But for others, the effects of the COVID storm have been harder to navigate…. If your single, or unable to get out as much, the isolation can lead to depression and loneliness. Many Seniors living in facilities haven’t been able be with their family for months! Some people have had to put off needed medical procedures. Plenty of workers haven’t had the option to work from home, while some are still unemployed or have seen their business lose money. And heaven help those who don’t have a home at all to quarantine in. Same storm. Different boats.

We could apply that same saying to other issues going on in the world today. The political tensions and racial tensions in this country are storming around us… the various boats we are in affect how we experience these things. What kind of boat are you in? A boat built by privilege, education, and resources? Or a boat that has been pounded by storm after storm of prejudice and lack of opportunity. Your perspective and mine might be different depending on what kind of boat we find ourselves in. We might even differ in how we understand the storm… are these strong winds pushing us to new shores? leading us to positive change? Or do the gales threaten to break apart our only means of navigating the waters? Same storm. Different boats.

I guess another aspect we can consider is this: Do we get to choose our boats? Or do our boats choose us? I think both are true to some extent. I guess we could ask the same about the storm. I certainly know that some people have had to deal with storms much bigger than I ever have… but I think the key aspect here is, in this life, God never promised us clear sailing. We all have storms. Sometimes, like in the story of Elijah in the cave, and Jesus sending the disciples ahead in the boat, it seems that God actually, purposefully, sends us out knowing we’ll encounter a storm.

How we experience those storms and handle those storms has to do with - what kind of boat we’re in…. and what kind of boat we choose…

Some aspects of our boat are just handed to us by the circumstances of life, or the structures of society. Other aspects we have a choice in. I think the words of the serenity prayer fit here: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference.

Let’s get back to our biblical texts for today.

In our Old Testament lesson, Elijah has just confronted King Ahab and defeated the Prophets of Baal. It was a fantastic display of God’s power - Elijah called down fire from heaven and everything! But King Ahab’s wife, Jezebel is none to happy and has vowed to have Elijah put to death. So Elijah is fleeing for his life. The storm that Elijah faces is ungodly corrupt rulers leading Israel astray, and who are set against him and against God’s will. It was the storm faced by the other Israelites as well. On top of that, there was drought and famine in the land. Elijah has cried out to God, “I’ve had enough Lord,” he said, “Take my life.” But God sustains him with miraculous food and drink in the desert… and in that strength, he travels 40 days and nights to go to Mt. Horeb. Which is where our passage begins. The word of God comes to Elijah and asks, “What are you doing here?” A question he asks Elijah twice… So maybe Elijah hadn’t been following God’s navigational chart in the first place.

Elijah begins his lament again, “I’ve been zealous for you, God, but all the Israelites have rejected you! I’m the only one left, and my life is on the line.” It sounds like he thinks that he’s the only one experiencing the storm, and that he’s all alone in the boat. Elijah finds the baggage of fear and anxiety into his boat, perhaps of even depression.

He looks for the voice of God in the storms on the mountain – in the wind, in the earthquake and in the fire. But God isn’t there. God appears in the still, small, voice…. In the sound of sheer silence. In the silence Elijah can hear God’s voice. Yes, there is a storm in Israel, but God has a plan. God assures Elijah that he is not the only one out on this stormy sea. There are 7000 others who will carry on the fight.

The same storm looks a lot different when you know you are part of a whole fleet, and not just a lone boat tossed on the waves. The boat fueled by faith and solidarity is a lot better than the boat of fear and isolation.

The story we have in the gospel today falls right on the heels of the story we heard last week – the feeding of the 5000. If you remember, Jesus had been trying to find a solitary place to pray after the death of John the Baptist, but was met by the crowds. In his compassion he healed and fed them with 5 loaves and 2 fish. Finally, at the end of the day, he sent the disciples away in a boat while he dismissed the crowd. Jesus finally took the solitary prayer time he needed.

I think Jesus knew they’d be encountering a storm. In the evening the boat was already far from shore and buffeted by the wind. But Jesus does not go to them until the 4th watch of the night, between 3-6 am. Jesus must have known they’d be frightened, but he also was clear what he was called to do – to re-center himself in prayer, and in his Father’s will.

I believe God knows that dealing with adversity and the storms of life can open us up to encounter him. Dealing with storms helps us learn and builds our strength. I don’t believe God causes the storms in our life, but God doesn’t always prevent them either.

There’s a Contemporary Christian song called “Sometimes he calms the storm.” It’s chorus goes like this:

Sometimes He calms the storm


With a whispered peace be still


He can settle any sea


But it doesn't mean He will

Sometimes He holds us close


And lets the wind and waves go wild


Sometimes He calms the storm


And other times He calms His child

How are the disciples experiencing this storm? What kind of boat are they in? It had been a long and confusing day, and now they’ve been compelled by Jesus to get in their small fishing boat to go on ahead. As the wind and waves kick up, they find themselves in a boat of fear and anxiety, which just added to their exhaustion and confusion. Were they angry that Jesus wasn’t with them? Angry that he seemed to have abandoned them?

Maybe. But they were also obedient. Jesus had told them to go to the other side. It would have been easier to turn around and head back to shore. But if they had been disobedient, they would have missed what Jesus was doing in that storm.

At the right time, Jesus does come to them, miraculously, walking on the water. God’s timing is often different than ours. And when Jesus does come, the disciples don’t recognize him at first. One of our constant refrains when we are battling the storms of life needs to be, “Where are you Lord?” and to keep a look out for how Jesus comes to us.

Jesus responds with words of comfort, power and assurance. “Take heart, it is I, do not be afraid.” Have Courage, I AM. Fear not. In saying “It is I, eigo emi in Greek, he is using the very name of God – Yahweh. I AM who I am. Fear Not. God is God.

Peter is ready to accept this, and, at Jesus’ invitation, steps out of the boat of fear into the waves of faith. He doesn’t make it long before he falters, but he shows us just what the power of Jesus can do. And then, when Jesus gets in the boat, the storm is calmed for all of them. Finally, all of their eyes are opened and they proclaim, “Truly, you are the son of God.”

In this world, there are storms. The kind of boat we have can make a difference in how we handle those storms. Same storm. Different boats. Some boats we may not get to choose, which means we need to refrain from judging other people’s boats, and to be ready to help out those in vessels less sea-worthy than ours.

But we do have some say in how we equip our boats, and what passengers and cargo we take along with us. Do we load ourselves down with baggage like self-pity, fear, self-interest or anxiety. Or can we trust that God is God, and decide to weather the storms with faith, centeredness, and hope?

We are called to follow God’s leading in obedience, even if it leads us into scary storms. We are called to look out for Jesus on the waves, and be ready to meet him when he calls. And always, we are called to invite him into our boats, where we can find his peace and power.

A boat with Jesus aboard can whether any storm. Amen.

Re-Gathering Plans for August 9th!

July 23, 2020

Dear Friends,

The diocese has just approved our plan for regathering for worship and we look forward to doing so in a way that both honors our spiritual traditions as well as provides the utmost in safety and health protocols. August 9th at 9:30 am will be our first time to regather for Sunday worship.

I know many of you are anxious to see your church family and receive the sacrament of Holy Communion. At the same time, I also know that many remain cautious and are not ready to resume gathering in groups. It is important that each person make their own decision, based on their comfort and risk level, whether it is the right time for them to regather.  

First of all, know that we will continue to offer an online version of worship. Once we start to regather, the online format will change. While we may start online streaming simply, we are also exploring better audio-visual equipment for recording and streaming our services. This will not only be beneficial for this period of dealing with remote worship during the pandemic, but also will strategically situate us for future growth and evangelism in a highly-connected world. So, while our first efforts at streaming our live service may not be as polished as our pre-recorded services currently are, you can expect that we will continue to learn and grow technologically as we share the Good News of Jesus.

Also, once we begin worship, Becki and I will also make ourselves available to bring communion to those of you not yet ready to come to church.  We can do this by household, small group, or meet you or your small group at the church. Please call me to make arrangements. (804-272-0992w / 434-603-1782c)

If you feel ready to join us for in-person worship, here is what you need to know:

·        The sanctuary will be thoroughly cleaned before each service, and volunteers will clean any high touch areas as needed during and after the service.

·        Hand sanitizer stations are available in the narthex and up front before receiving communion. You are invited and encouraged to bring your own hand sanitizer.

·        To attend, you must not have any COVID-19 symptoms and have not knowingly been exposed to someone with COVID-19 in the previous two weeks.

·        You will need to make a reservation. You may do this by:

o   Calling the church office before noon on Thursday (804-272-0992) or

o   Signing up on the Sign Up Genius each week. The link sfor the following week will be sent out in a Monday email, or you can go to www.signupgenius.com/findasignup and where it says, “Search for a Sign Up by sign up creator's email,” enter StMsBonAir@gmail.com. Any St. Michael’s Sign ups will show up there.

o   For the sake of evangelism and hospitality, we will be holding 2 slots for guests each week, should we have someone just show up at our front door

·        Based on our polling, we believe we can safely accommodate almost everyone who is ready to start gathering at our one 9:30 am service each week. You will need to give the total numbers of attendees and their names for each reservation.

o   The Sanctuary slots (30) are for household units of 1-3 people. If you have more than 3 people, please reserve 2 slots, and you may all sit together in the same pew. 

o   The Chapel slots (10) are by individual, since only 2 individuals can fit on our 5 available pews with appropriate social distancing. If you have 2-6 persons in your party, reserve 2 slots and you can all sit together in the same pew. 

o   If we run out of room, please add your name to the waiting list. We will contact you if space opens up, and register you first for the following week if you are available. 

o   If we find we continue to have waiting lists, we will move toward a second service.

·        If you have been ill, shown any symptoms of COVID-19, or been around anyone diagnosed with COVID-19 in the last 14 days, you should stay home.

·        Note that if someone who attended in-person worship tests positive for COVID-19, we will contact the others at the service. You’ll be asked to self-quarantine for 14 days unless you have a subsequent negative test.

·        Please use the restroom before you leave home to cut down on church usage, but the restrooms are available and a volunteer will sanitize the surfaces in the bathroom between uses.

·        You'll need to wear your face coverings at all times, except when receiving communion.  If you forget your mask, we will have a limited supply available.

·        You will need to keep physically distanced by 6' between family groups, and not pass things between people outside family groups.

·        All worshippers will enter by the front center doors.

·        Please plan to arrive early to help us not be rushed during our check in process.

·        As you arrive, the door will be opened for you, and an usher will take your temperature at your forehead with a no-touch thermometer, and your name checked off the reservation list.

·        A full-service bulletin will be available for pick up at the entrance.

·        An offering plate will also be available on a table at the entrance, or you may continue online or mail in offerings.

·        You will be seated from front to back in the church.

·        You will be released from the back to the front to avoid “traffic jams” in aisles.

·        People will exit on the side aisles and use the side doors to reach the outside. This one-way traffic pattern will help keep us physically distanced.

·        If you wish to socialize after worship, you are welcome to do so, as long as you keep 6’ physical distance between family units and move your conversation out of the walkways where others are trying to exit. (Try the front lawn, memorial garden, area near the parish house, or staying/ returning to your pews which mark the 6’ distance.

·        There will be no refreshments available after the service, though, as always, a paper cup dispenser in the bathroom allows you to get water. You may also bring your own water bottle.

Additionally, if you are able to volunteer as ushers, greeters, or “sanitizers” please call the church office and let us know, since some of our regular volunteers are not yet ready to return in person.

I know these “rules” may seem somewhat antithetical to the warm, open hospitality we normally value, but I believe that by following these guidelines we can still enjoy a joyful and cordial time of fellowship and worship.

Blessings,

The Rev. Dr. Jeunée Godsey